i told my sister "feelings are like flowers. we can cultivate ones we want to keep and grow. then there's other flowers that we don't really want in our garden but to get rid of them we have to fully grip em and pull them out of the ground and hold them in our hands for a minute, really touch all around those undesirable flowers to uproot from the ground. but this is only temporary that we have to deal with those. it takes effort to pull from the roots but hey we won't have to grow those flowers again in the future if you put in the hard work." and honestly i made it up on the spot and just started talking to see where my words would take me and that's what i came up with. it's a stretch and simple but i kinda like it